Most likely, you didn’t label yourself a fat loser from the start; instead, someone or a group of people did. However, I’m here to tell you that they were lying! In no way are you a loser.
Even if you’re overweight (which we’ll talk about in a bit), that doesn’t make you a loser. Here is the evidence:
Everybody is unique in their own way, and different people have many abilities that are peculiar to them.
Think about your favorite celebrity and what they are good at and then imagine them handling some of the things you are best at, wouldn’t they appear to be a loser in that situation?
This is to imply that everyone is unique in their way and has distinct abilities, and it is impossible for one person to suck at everything, hence being a loser is impossible.
There are some things you can do perfectly well that most people can’t, some things you can do averagely and just like anyone else, and some things you can’t do at all, but that doesn’t make you a loser; it simply makes you different and unique.
Consider all the professions, skills, and abilities we have; can one person be an expert in every one of them? Certainly not, and neither can that same individual suck at all!
So every person has unique abilities that no one else can perform more effectively than them.
You are not a loser in any form, the only thing you can do for yourself is to tune out the noise, work on your average skills to become an expert in them, explore other areas, identify your strengths, and have the curiosity to learn and master them.
Another thing to realize is that you have complete control over your emotions and how you react to what others say to you; that is, what others say doesn’t matter; what counts is what you think of yourself.
People have mouths and are free to say anything they want with them, but how you respond to taunts or bullying will show if you are truly accepting of it or strong enough to ignore them.
If you allow negative words to define you and give in to them, you may unconsciously align yourself with those words and show them in your behavior.
For instance, if you call someone an idiot repeatedly, they may reach a point of reflection and acceptance where they begin to believe that they truly are an idiot. What’s surprising is that they soon start acting like one.
You may want to consider why exactly people keep labeling you a loser so that you might make the required changes, but you don’t want to concede that you truly are a loser.
But once more, when someone slanders another person, it could be because they are frightened by them, or out of jealousy. If someone calls you a fat loser out of jealousy, then you are actually winning.
But no one can be loved and respected by everyone all of the time; there will always be individuals who disagree with what you do, which is why even top celebrities have critics and haters.
Don’t be discouraged; embrace your beliefs and be open-minded.
How to stop being fat
Now that we’re talking about how to stop being fat, the first step you want to take is to give up the idea that you’ll never lose weight or punish yourself for being big.
That said, here are some of the general steps you can take to stop being overweight.
Change Your Diet And Eat Healthily
reduce your intake of all unhealthy meals, junk such as pizza, burgers, tacos, cakes, and sweets should be avoided.
Instead, consume a well-balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains. Reduce the amount of food you consume in general; perhaps you could try using a smaller plate.
Stop drinking sodas, juices, and alcohol because they are high in calories. You may even set a goal of solely drinking water and drinking a lot of it.
Depending on how long you can tolerate it, draw out a plan to deprive your body of meals for a certain number of hours and do it consistently.
Begin with gentle exercises and activities that you enjoy and can fit into your schedule. Perhaps jumping, jogging, dancing, walking, or biking for at least 30 minutes per day.
Hit The Gym
When you feel lighter, going to the gym is always a good idea because that is where the real calories are burned.
Keep Your Diet In Check
It’s simple to start a weight loss routine, but after a few days, you find yourself reverting to your old eating and drinking habits.
If you’re serious about losing weight, you need to keep track of everything you consume daily and stick to the plan.
There is no such thing as an absolute genius or an absolute loser in the world. Everyone excels in their respective fields. It all comes down to personal interests and capabilities.
Winners are achievers, and not everyone achieves the same things in life. What is an accomplishment for me may not be an achievement for someone else.
As a result, various people have varying definitions of success and achievement. So, in general, no one is a loser in life.
If you assess a monkey by its swimming abilities and a fish by its climbing abilities, both will be considered losers.
So, the best way to respond the next time someone compares you to others or calls you a fat loser is to ignore them and work hard to prove them wrong.
Also, don’t forget to reflect on your accomplishments thus far and be proud of them, no matter how minor.
Be confident, cheerful, and hardworking, and avoid comparing yourself to others. Nothing is impossible to attain in this world if you really want it.