Being confident is one of the biggest way to attract a woman, it’s a huge red flag when you appear timid especially during your first meeting with a girl and that might make you lose her forever.
Oh, almost forgot; this post is about silent attraction techniques, so you don’t need to meet the girl or chat with her now, but of course, the way you walk into the room can add to the reasons you’re able to win her over.
Confidence works hand in hand with appearance and that is why you feel more comfortable and high of yourself when you’re in your best or a new outfit.
Walking into the room with one of your arms in your pocket and the other doing the Instagram scrolling isn’t a bad idea but be aware that there is a thin line between confidence and pride or the way people perceives you as being proud.The line between being confident and the way people perceives you as being proud is a thin one Click To Tweet
Pay Attention To Your Posture
The most obvious way to communicate confidence is through your posture, your posture says a lot about you and goes a long way in attracting women to you and bad posture can be can subtly reduce her interest in you, pay attention to your postures.
You don’t want to sit on half of the chair as if it is originally made for two people; take the space and appear comfortable within yourself and that’s when you’ll start being comfortable with others.
Dress Smart And Fitted
Try Holding Eye Contact With Her
Making eye contact with ladies is another significant way to silently attract them.
When you make eye contact with women, they automatically believe you’re interested in them so you want to leverage on that to silently attract her, give her a cool stare and allow her to catch you staring at her after which you take your eyes off.
Women loves to be the Centre of attraction and when you raise her ego by giving her a friendly stare, she’ll be grateful for that (Although she will not come to you to say thank you)and also start seeing you as the “Not Bad” guy in the process after which approaching her will be much more easier because you would have seen it in her eye if she finds you attractive too.
There was a time we finished up an exam in college and I’m about to leave so I stretched my arm for a goodbye handshake to one of my female friends and she declined and insisted she wants an hug instead, I guess you can tell what the reason is.
Social proof is a really simple approach to stand out and gain women’s attention. Surrounding yourself with friends (female preferably) demonstrates that you are the type of man who women enjoy being around.
Other ladies in the room will be curious as to what it is about these women that makes them want to be with you. It will make ladies intrigued about you, interested in you, and perhaps even a little bit jealous that they aren’t included.
Use the linker rule
The linker rule is simple and it says
Leverage on what is linked to your target to get to your target - Sam Fiero
It’s of high probability that you’re a shy type and a simple linker method you can use is to start with her friends, since her friends aren’t your target, you should have less or no problem approaching and speaking with them.
Pretend not to place her on high esteem but as well, do not be intentional about ignoring her, focus basically on her friends and leverage on your preformed relationship with them to get to her slowly but steadily and before you know it, you’re already rolling with her.
Conclusion – Ways To Silently Attract A Woman
The first thing you should keep in mind is to agree with the fact that women can be attracted silently without having to approach her but while there are some who will be attracted to the extent of approaching you first as a woman, some will merely give out “green light” and you’ll still eventually have to approach them, and if you decide not to approach them, they will struggle with the feeling until it dies out.
The point here is: silently attracting her is not enough to get things going between you both, you actually need to approach her and make you intentions known because if you’re waiting for her to approach first, it may never happen.