How To Be A Man’s Peace – 10 Golden Rules

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Everyone values peace and men are no exception; in fact, there can be no progress in an environment where there is no peace.  The peaceful principles of becoming a man’s peace haven’t changed; what has changed is how feminism influences women to rise to the level of equality; in fact, many marriages and beautiful relationships have collapsed because the woman refuses to admit she’s a woman.

Men are not complicated; they share many characteristics and may be easily predicted following some type of social testing with a few of them. Men appear complicated because of the lengths they will go to defend their masculinity. When women try to show them that they aren’t manly enough, they will do anything to prove them incorrect, and this is the root of most marital problems.

What Does it Mean to be a Man’s Peace?

Being a man’s peace means standing by him even when it feels as though everything else is against him, serving as a friend and a confidant to whom he can open up without worrying about being judged. When you’re a man’s peace, you try as much as possible to take away his pains and not add to them.

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Why Does a Man Need Peace

Some men leave their houses to cheat on their wives, while many leave their homes to find peace. What could be more frustrating than getting home from work to a nagging wife? The weight of responsibility that society and the family place on a man is reason enough for him to sit quietly and think from time to time. So, what you can do to help him and be his peace is to provide them with a peaceful environment in which they can think clearly.

10 Rules to be a Man’s Peace

It’s needless to say that you need to love him truly; you shouldn’t have anything romantic to do with someone you don’t genuinely love in the first place because there’s no way you can be a man’s peace if you aren’t sincere with your love, therefore love isn’t on the list. Aside from that, below are the ten things to do to give a man peace of mind.

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Be Peaceful

The first sign you’re his peace is when you’re peaceful yourself. Create a peaceful environment in your home for him, one that he will wish to return to after work. Stop fighting, arguing, or nagging, avoid sweating the minor stuff, forgive him when he apologizes and strife to make things much easier for him, and avoid doing things that will frustrate him and provide him a conducive environment to feel peace, and that is when you become his peace.

Respect Him

As a matter of fact, respect is one of the key secrets to a happy marriage. You can’t really say you love a man if you don’t respect him; the two go hand in hand. As a result, stay away from anything that minimizes his masculinity. Men love to be respected and will go to any lengths to keep a respectful wife. Most of them even place a higher value on respect than sex; in fact, a respectful wife can obtain everything from her husband. Also, respect his parents and treat them as your own.

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Compliment Him

While they are at work, simply pick up your phone and hop over to their Whatsapp wall to post “I feel lucky to have you,” or tell them to sit that you want to explain to them how handsome they are and watch them grin sincerely; no normal man will joke with a woman who makes him feel good. The idea is to toss him some random compliments and remind him of his excellent attributes at random. Compliments work best when they aren’t expecting them, not when he presents you with a gift.

Show Gratitude

A man who works hard to make ends meet deserves to be thanked; granted, he has not fulfilled all of his promises, but he is trying. Appreciating the minor things can help you attract the bigger ones. make him feel secure and rest assured that even if no one else recognizes his efforts, his wife does.

Accept and appreciate whatever gift he offers you, never feel entitled, and always portray that ‘glad and surprised’ facial expression whenever he gives you a gift, even if it’s something you’re expecting, as this will certainly inspire him to do more.

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Be Feminine

Most women lose it at this point, dismissing his masculinity and literally competing for the position of the head of the family. Don’t be that way; instead, be feminine and soft. No man wants to date another man in a lady’s dress. If you disagree with him on something, have a polite conversation about it. Be feminine without practicing ‘feminism’; instead, let him feel like the man he is.

Be Responsive

Another quality required to be a man’s peace is responsiveness. Answer when he calls, take when he gives, give when he asks, listen when he speaks, and provide assistance when needed.

Communicate With Him

Many failed relationships and marriages are the results of a lack of communication. Apart from the fact that communicating makes him feel at peace with you, it is also a necessity for a successful marriage and relationship. Never hide your feelings from him, if at all you’d communicate anything to anyone, he’s your number one man, don’t try to be secretive, express your feelings and talk things through.

Be Open Minded

Another amazing way to be his peace and not his headache is the ability to make decisions while remaining flexible enough to accept modifications and fresh updates from him. Access his ideas with an open mind and, again, if you don’t agree with the change, discuss it with him politely.

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Trust Him

Trust is another key aspect of a relationship; do not be influenced by social media to suspect or wrongly accuse your partner of cheating for whatever reason; instead, maintain your trust in him until he gives you reasons not to. Do not bother him about a coworker, neighbor, or friend. Insecurity is a huge home breaker, and unjustified stalking, confrontation, and accusing will get you nowhere. A polite and honest discussion is usually the best place to start if you have serious worries about cheating.

Support Him

If he wants to attempt something new, support him. If he is going through a difficult time in his life, be his peace by being there for him. Expecting a deep chat every time he is having a difficult time is unrealistic because males typically do not open up as easily as women do. Be a helpful friend, not his worst critic. Try to assist him as much as you can by also taking care of the small bills if you have the means.

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If you follow through with everything, you’ll not only be a man’s peace, but also his joy and he’ll always run to you. Please take note that if your man is an asshole by nature, this advice won’t help. No matter what you do, he will treat you badly, treat you like garbage, and cheat on you. Find the one man who is deserving of your love before you do all I’ve said above. Don’t just show any man your love. If you naturally feel happy with him, that is a sign that he is deserving.

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